Mar 4, 2009
DIDIER DROGBA AND THE PARADOX OF CONFIDENCE
From Observer Sports Monthly’s interview with the Drog:
And was the now ex-manager correct to diagnose a drop in Drogba’s “confidence”, his potency around the box? “I’ve never had a problem with my confidence. It’s not about my confidence, it’s still high. I know what I can bring to our team. I don’t really agree with what he said. This is his opinion, but everyone has opinions.”
This illustrates neatly the Catch-22 for leaders talking about confidence. Saying “it’s all down to confidence” can be a way of telling your staff that success is right around the corner, and that difficulties now will seem minor once you get on a roll. “Form is temporary, class is permanent”, to use the old cricket adage.
But talk of confidence can also be demotivating. First, because it specifies a problem without obvious solutions. So we need confidence: how do we go about getting it? The leader doesn’t have the answers; no-one does. More often than not, it seems to me, confidence rhetoric is used to justify the current course of action. “Stick with me”, the leader is saying: “keep on doing what we’re doing and it will all be alright in the end”.
This strategy - used most notably at the moment by President Obama - is fine so far as it goes. But it may end up backfiring. Like happiness, confidence is not something that welcomes conscious thought. Thinking about it tends to unravel it: after all, what is it based on, really? As J. S. Mill put it in his autobiography:
Ask yourself whether you are happy, and you cease to be so.
So I’m not surprised to see Didier sounding a bit defensive about Scolari’s quote. It was poor management. When confidence is low, it’s often best to carry on as if it wasn’t.

unless you are leading the way, geographically speaking, in which case best to hold up your hands and allow others, who might really know the way, take over. here, an over-confident leader may just get you lost. right, rowls?